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Instructions on how Flirt Messages works

You can send a message as a flirt. That means that the flirt message isn't sent until the receiver also flirts with you. So you can write something like "Will you marry me?" or "ur hot! do u have msn?!?!" and no one will ever get annoyed by it, because they will only see the flirt if they are interested in you.

If you send a flirt to someone that has sent a flirt to you, that flirt will be sent as a message to you, and your flirt will also immediately be sent as a message with the comment that it is a responded flirt.

If successful, you can get married, but please kindly send a donation to this site as this site is the matchmaker after all... Minimum $2,888.


Note: If you flirt with someone and that member flirt back, the next flirt will be sent only if that member flirts with you again.



How to list your flirts

Go to your notes and press "List sent but unresponded flirts".




How to list successful flirts

No, you can't list them. You can search it in your messages if they are not yet deleted.

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2005-10-11 [Revenge Wolf]: so quit your b****ing

2005-10-11 [Ryuk Kannagi]: hm? can't help but say wolf is right, heddas just doing his best, plus its a new thing, its not going to be perfect, hell nothing is at first, so you all should just take it easy, if something serious comes up with this thing, it will probably be taken care of quickly

2005-10-11 [lohawefniwubf]: *w00ts at Wolf* Right on buddy!

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Stupid everything >.<

2005-10-11 [Whim]: As I said, I know pervs aren't going to use the flirt feature, but the flirt feature does project a certain image for Elftown. I also said that it's Hedda's community and he can do what he wants with it. All I'm saying is that if anyone thinks this is going to help the perv problem, you're wrong. And if anyone thinks Elftown is going to become an artist community again, well, it looks like you're wrong too. The image Elftown creates for itself is what Elftown will become. This fantasy fairy stuff naturally attracts a younger crowd. A younger crowd is naturally driven by their hormones at times. Adding things like a flirt function are going to attract an even more hormonal driven crowd

2005-10-11 [Whim]: Once the hormonal crowd realizes that the flirt function is useless, they're going to start harassing and virtually molesting eachother in public wikis and normal messages. To me, it seems like this flirt function is either a blatent attempt to convert Elftown into a dating community or a half-assed attempt to control the perv problem. If it's a half-assed attempt to control the perv problem, then let me explain exactly what will happen--the perv problem will get worse. Simple as that. If you don't believe me, just sit and watch. I'm right and anyone who knows me knows that I'm right.

2005-10-11 [Whim]: And yes, Hedda is doing his best, I'm sure. But it looks like he found a nifty new feature to add to his community and instead of naming it something like "Secret Messages" he called it "Flirts." The name makes all the difference. The name is what creates the image. So people are gonna say, "Hey, wow, I can flirt on Elftown. Now I get to flirt with all the super hotties." Then they'll find out that the "super hotties" can't read their flirts so they'll harass the super hotties in an attempt to make them either read the flirts or just say what they sad in the flirt which will ultimately make flirts a cheap gimmicky fad that will pass with time, but before it passes, it will have...

2005-10-11 [Whim]: ...already attracted the type of crowd that many people don't want here. As I say before, Elftown is no longer an artist community, nor will it ever be an artist community again. It's now a hangout for teens. And if that's what Hedda wants, then that's fine.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: I know your right to. Did I say something that seemed like I didn't? O.O I'm not being sarcastic honestly, I dont know if I did or not.

2005-10-11 [Whim]: No, I was speaking to anyone who doubted me. I know you think I'm right. And truthfully, I think everyone up there knows I'm right too, but they're either too stubborn to admit it or just don't want to lose the site they like to cyber on while they're at school.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Oh I see lol and yes I agree. You should really post this onto Hedda, you seem like a very wise person with an extremely clear view.

2005-10-11 [Whim]: If Hedda cares, Hedda will read this. Truthfully, I shouldn't have to tell Hedda these things because if he has any desire to see this community become an artist community again, he'll actually make an effort to take a look at how things are operating. And besides, he has probably at least 5 guard and council members watching this page--plus any patrollers. So if the people who help Hedda run this site have any interest in its well being, they're watching and taking note of any response from the community. Of course, if any of them don't care--well, with the exception of Hedda, I don't know how they managed to gain a position as a guard or council member or even a patroller if they...

2005-10-11 [Whim]: ...don't care what happens to the community.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Ah *nods*

2005-10-11 [Sunrose]: Actually I have already suggested a namechange yesterday when seeing peoples comments. That would only be an Elftown concern though, not one of Elfpack for instance.

2005-10-11 [Whim]: I wouldn't know anything about Elfpack...*laughs*

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Lol its grey, boring and worse than here for perves.

2005-10-11 [Whim]: I'm sure it has its good sides. Just may have to dig a little deeper to find it.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Maybe. We'll need a big shovel :3

2005-10-11 [Whim]: Well, what people must remember about Elfpack is that it was originally created to attempt to lure the troublemakers of Elftown away. It worked, for a time, but for whatever reason, the pervs and such either came back here or started using both. So Elfpack does still serve its purpose, however, Elftown continues to get driven downward towards Elfpack's level. Something we must also remember is that while Elfpack was never intended to be an artist community, some might say that it is just as successful at exposing and encouraging artistic minds as Elftown ever was.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Ah...lol XD ok you win!

2005-10-11 [Swilley]: wth is this for???

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: *blink blink* Read

2005-10-11 [Swilley]: oh I see... :-)

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: *prod* :3

2005-10-11 [Joe]: I agree with whim. Most people do not post drawings, rather just rome the site looking for cyber love. I post some things on here, but deviantart is my main site for that. Sadly, I do not see this site as so artsy anymore. Back in the day almost everyone had art on there page. Oh well, times pass.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Times pass and then come back round you silly! I have a page on there and so do thousands of other people.

2005-10-11 [Lothuriel]: Maybe it's just me but, I think the flirt thing is a really cute solution for a really nasty problem. It is also a fun way to mess around with your friends. Sure, Elftown is all about the art and things of that nature but it is also here for those who like to enjoy themselves and have fun

2005-10-11 [popeyethecat]: Well, I think this is a fairly good idea, so if teens decide to flirt you can completely ignore them, and not have to even read their message

2005-10-11 [Del'Garn]: Why would anyone flirt??? *looks confused*

2005-10-11 [ThePinkSpiders]: really dont it sucks ass

2005-10-11 [zip]: Because it avoids embarrassment if your affections are not returned.

2005-10-11 [Paul Doyle]: [Lothuriel], wot ur asl l337

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: It really really wont solve the problem on ther perverts. People can't seem to see that. Sure its fun but what the hey?

2005-10-11 [zip]: Exactly, it's fun. Why does everything on ET have to turn into an argument?

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: It creates the wrong sort of image for Elftown. I think thats it.

2005-10-11 [zip]: So do messages, ET chat, member search and body type. Who died and made you hedda?

2005-10-11 [Sunrose]: RAWR!

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Well no not really. Ok heres a little one for you, who crawled up your arse and died? Ok were even now, what brought that nasty little comment on? I'm only offering my opinion based on whats been said and what I've learnt.

2005-10-11 [zip]: *rawrs at sunrose* I think I felt ETs image lose a little bit of morality just then.. The nasty little comment came out of you thinking you know what the "right" image for ET is.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: [Sunrose] RAWR!! yourself! X3 *slobber*

2005-10-11 [Lothuriel]: [Paul Doyle] Hey my asl is 666 and my username is death....wanna chat? LOL...

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: XD lol

2005-10-11 [Whim]: Hey! That looks like flirting! Keep it on the flirt lines, guys.

2005-10-11 [Sunrose]: *grins* :P

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: Ok pervert forum =wrong artist and writer community =right, whats so hard about that?

2005-10-11 [Paul Doyle]: Ooo, Lothie baby, you twitterpating stalker, you :3

2005-10-11 [Whim]: hehe...you grin now, Sunrose, but you're looking at what it's really gonna look like with all the normal members.

2005-10-11 [Hummingbird]: I'm butting out [zip] -Zip it ;p Laura reporting for bed!! *jumps in* hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm warm......u.u...Zzzzzzz

2005-10-11 [Sunrose]: Actually I grinned at [zip] and [Hummingbird] rawring.. . Regardless of that btw not saying I didn't find Loth's joke funny, because it was.

2005-10-12 [Paul Doyle]: *is breathless and sultry* :PPPPP

2005-10-12 [Lothuriel]: *takes a bow*

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: *claps* eheheh :p

2005-10-12 [Paul Doyle]: *Butthead voice* Uh-huhuh-huhuhuh . . . hey, baby!

2005-10-12 [Joe]: this has turnedinto some kind of chat thing now? Mmmk

2005-10-12 [Paul Doyle]: Well, it's your golden opportunity to see those of us artistic types who generally don't chat or cyber, chat anyway. With tongue firmly in cheek, because this isn't our thing on ET or anywhere else ;-)

2005-10-12 [dmwr]: how do u know the other person has flerted with u???

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: You don't, unless you flirt with that person and see if that person flirted/flirts back :)

2005-10-12 [Vader]: Who came up with this plan then?

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: [Hedda].

2005-10-12 [Vader]: Ah, obviously, I often wonder whats going throught that head of his.........................

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: Food, chicks, programming, Lilo..stuff like that :p

2005-10-12 [Vader]: Aw, I kinda imagined he's like a Borg from Star Trek :P

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: More people seem to think Guards are Borgs, someone just told me the same yesterday O.o

2005-10-12 [Vader]: Guards...no, if we were using star trek as a reference on here the guards would be the romulans hedda the borg and the nice people the federation and the rule breakers would be everyone else :P

2005-10-12 [Sunrose]: omg trekkie :P

2005-10-12 [Paul Doyle]: Beware of Klingons around Uranus.

2005-10-13 [Lothuriel]: Trekkies, Lilos, food....borgs? Man I need to quit popping in on the middle of conversations...I seem to be missing all the good stuff.

2005-10-13 [Paul Doyle]: It only gets better with your two-cents' worth :-)

2005-10-13 [Lothuriel]: *digs through pockets* aw man! I got nuthin'

2005-10-13 [Sunrose]: he he he :p

2005-10-13 [Swilley]: wuts goin on? :-?

2005-10-13 [Paul Doyle]: *watches tumbleweeds roll across the road*

2005-10-13 [Hummingbird]: *chases tumbleweeds!* WEEDS!! that tumble ;p

2005-10-14 [Swilley]: oooooook

2005-10-14 [Hummingbird]: *eats the tumble weed* x.x

2005-10-14 [Paul Doyle]: Um, BREASTS!!1122  Ooops, wrong thread :P

2005-10-15 [speakyourwords]: wow, ... interesting

2005-10-15 [Hummingbird]: *decides not to look and tries to eat Paul's feet*

2005-10-15 [Paul Doyle]: heehee, that tickles

2005-10-15 [Scars of the Open Heart]: i could donate a tin of anchovies...any takers?

2005-10-16 [island_queen]: oh i know a guy who would take it

2005-10-16 [Lothuriel]: Wow, I can't believe that many people voted in the boobies poll....er umm I mean breats poll. Interesting.

2005-10-16 [Vader]: cos boobs are fun ^_^

2005-10-17 [fake aint me]: why would ppl think the guards are borgs?

2005-10-18 [Lothuriel]: ROFLMBO!!!!

2005-10-18 [Kitten Hurts]: okay I vote you all are just crazy ...... which means i am crazy for writting this

2005-10-18 [Kitten Hurts]: yeah I'm crazy!!!!!!!!! :)

2005-10-20 [BANNED!!!]: huh..

2005-10-20 [Vader]: You gotta love Lecutus of Borg!

2005-10-21 [tetsuo]: LOL that's scary!.................*sits on ground and cries over scary borg picture*

2005-10-21 [Vader]: I love the borg, they're the perfect race! If anyone knows any borg wiki's can them tell me!  God I'm sounding more like a pimply trekkie every day! :P

2005-10-21 [BMX]: DUDE!!! Lets go biuld snow igloo's! snow igloo's kick ASS!...wait i live in texas*hangs head* ok ok if any one that lives in a cold place fedex me a snowman it will b much appreciated! loves

2005-10-22 [Funkymonkey93]: how do you get flirts

2005-10-22 [Vader]: If someone send u one....

2005-10-22 [psycho_bunny666]: doh

2005-10-23 [.x. kat .x.]: ok is it just me or is ne 1 confuzled :S

2005-10-23 [Vader]: just try it on a friend so u can learn how it works. Trial and error ^_^

2005-10-24 [lordjoesnow]: LOL hahaha this is fun!

2005-10-26 [Hummingbird]: You all smell!!! *runs off with her sugar bag* hmm sugar!!!

2005-10-28 [Paul Doyle]: Artsy-fartsy farts? :P

2005-10-28 [Hummingbird]: XD XD XD damn right!

2005-10-29 [KiriAugustus]: cheese

2005-10-29 [Vader]: foot crumpets!

2005-10-30 [I LoVe CoUnTrY BoYz]: hi

2005-11-01 [tons of fun]: thats just frichen confusing

2005-11-01 [Hummingbird]: Foot crumpets XD XD XD

2005-11-02 [Vader]: My feet smell like crumpets weirdly enough.......

2005-11-02 [Hummingbird]: Lol *sniffs her own feet and throws herself backwards off her seat due to the smell* OMG

2005-11-02 [Vader]: *hands some odereaters and a can of febreeze*

2005-11-02 [Hummingbird]: Oh thank you *blasts her feet with it* ~sniff sniff~ ahhh much better!

2005-11-02 [Vader]: Good *uncovers nose*

2005-11-02 [Hummingbird]: :3 *gets up for a start* XD

2005-11-03 [Paul Doyle]: *dry-cleans smelly big feet*

2005-11-03 [Hummingbird]: *glomps the Pauly Dragon* X3

2005-11-04 [Chanjeling]: By the way..... I don't think that febreeze comes in cans

2005-11-05 [Hummingbird]: Bottles is'nt it? but cans work just as well XD

2005-11-05 [Paul Doyle]: GRAWWR!

2005-11-05 [Hummingbird]: :D GYAHHHHRRR!!

2005-11-08 [Yanaba]: ????

2005-11-09 [Hummingbird]: Come on get with the programme XD ROAAARRRR

2005-11-10 [CoalSky]: Yup... that was educating

2005-11-10 [Paul Doyle]: <img:http://www.livejournal.com/userpic/14405827/1461356>

2005-11-10 [Hummingbird]: <img:http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a143/HummingbirdArual/Miniaruforwiki.jpg> yay for lazy colouring XD

2005-11-11 [Whim]: Wow, I think you're improving, Doyle. The facial features seem to be getting much more in line than they used to be.

2005-11-14 [GleamofDreams]: wow do people actually use that flirt thing, cuz i just found out about it m it sounds confusing

2005-11-14 [Hummingbird]: Lol well I dont *does snobby nose in the air pose*

2005-11-19 [Roarke]: Do you ppl have issues? J/k.. interesting posts. Right on topic.

2005-11-20 [IlOvEcHeRrIeS]: umm y r u talking about feet?

2005-11-20 [IlOvEcHeRrIeS]: OMG PLZ REA MY POEMS AND COMMENT

2005-11-21 [I LoVe CoUnTrY BoYz]: read****************

2005-11-22 [Hummingbird]: OMFG FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD I LOVE FEET ALL HAIL THE FEET ......NOW FOR GODS SAKE!!!!!!

2005-11-23 [Paul Doyle]: Just as long as the feet don't have toe-toast and jammies }8=P

2005-12-16 [Hummingbird]: I like to move it move it, he likes to move it move it, she likes to move it move it we like to MOVE IT!!!! Paul likes to move it move, Humm likes to move it move, Moon likes to move it move we like like to MOVE IT!!

2005-12-16 [Hummingbird]: Come on Paul dance! I'm sure you can hear it playing in your head, la la la lalala la la la la  la la la la la

2005-12-16 [Paul Doyle]: I blame it on too much coffee. *dances like an idiot*

2005-12-16 [Hummingbird]: XD *dances with you* la la la lalala la la la lalala XD XD XD OMG Paul lets go see if we can find Narnia!! *drags you to the wardrobe!!*

2005-12-16 [Paul Doyle]: um, OK?

2005-12-16 [Hummingbird]: Ack found it! *pulls you through her wardrobe and out into Narnia* http://adisney.go.com/disneypictures/narnia/index.html :D wow....

2005-12-19 [Subject37]: I LOOOOOOVVVVEEEEE Narnia!!!!

2005-12-19 [MaskedBeauty]: wow!

2005-12-19 [Hummingbird]: XD NARNIA!! *jumps back into her wardrobe* I LOVE NARNIA TOO!

2005-12-21 [Break me Shake me Take me]: XDDD i wanna see teh mooovie :( *goes insane and runs into a wall*

2005-12-23 [Hummingbird]: Xd no no hun thats not the way to do it *stops you from running into the wall and re-directs you to the wardrobe* NARNIA!!

2006-01-12 [Venerate Miercy]: ????

2006-01-19 [Angel_face13]: hey yall

2006-02-06 [Mintbee]: i have not been on in.. years this is new but i think i understand

2006-02-06 [DarkHero]: peh

2006-02-07 [MorbeussuebroM]: hey be my valinten.

2006-02-24 [Unknown142x]: ok then interesting....

2006-03-07 [SpiritOfTheWater]: Flirt...O_o

2006-04-01 [zaxycu]: so fawking confuzing. just not gonna do it.

2006-04-07 [aswheeler77]: What's with everyone talking about narnia?

2006-04-11 [Hummingbird]: Narnia! wha?

2006-04-16 [medievil owns]: boo

2006-04-16 [medievil owns]: dude whats whit the narnia and running into walls?

2006-04-16 [DRAMATIC CHEESE NIP!!]: ok....

2006-04-19 [Hummingbird]: XD

2006-04-19 [Hummingbird]: Whats with the dude? :3

2006-05-16 [small and mighty]: yeah.im confused about the narnia thing too...lol...but ive seen it about a dozen or more times...lol....

2006-05-17 [elfgrl101]: narnia rox mi sox!

2006-05-20 [Centaeus]: i like Peter Pevensie.. he's cute... but the actor is 19 years old...

2006-05-26 [deedee0923]: whats wrong with hs age?

2006-06-04 [Hummingbird]: Did this actually serve any purpose Xd mean other than the feet and narnia and Pauly's icon? XD :3

2006-07-07 [Starlight*]: XD HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

2006-07-15 [Hummingbird]: Huh? XD LMAO

2006-07-26 [across the universe]: boo tay!

2006-07-26 [Paul Doyle]: Hmm, flirting with a fictitious anthro-dragon character?

2006-07-27 [Duckess]: All ur all nutz or what???!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-28 [Paul Doyle]: To our credit, we do try to spell properly ;-)

2006-07-29 [Hummingbird]: and we normaly succeed (well maybe not me as much as Pauly ;p)

2006-09-03 [cap'n sharkbait - the sword test dummy]: Am i the onlee won hoo nos ow ta spel?

2006-09-03 [Hummingbird]: Wha did I spell someit wong? eh? eh? XDXDXD

2006-11-30 [zankou]: noone will flirt with me...lol :(

2006-11-30 [Hummingbird]: omg ill flirt wiv u!!!111111!!!!1 XDDDDDDD LMAO

2007-01-15 [Yami]: no one would with me either. I'm too ugly XD

2007-03-07 [Hummingbird]: Lol lies, anyway would you want to be bugged by a thousand over active emo teens? XD

2007-04-11 [Meroku]: Whats wronge with the poor little fucked up emo's?

2007-04-11 [Paul Doyle]: I'll tell you what's wrong. The poor little fucked up emos think Elftown is the "Promised Land".

2007-04-22 [MisterScurvy]: So heaps of people might be flirting with me, but I'll never know unless I send flirts to EVERYONE just in case? Sounds like a plan!

2007-05-24 [Cupboard*Full*O f*Malice]: that sounds like a good idea scurvy

2007-08-15 [~*Love_Less*~]: lol

2007-09-22 [wee-hen]: hello

2007-11-04 [dragon of death vally]: ugh

2008-03-14 [5cm/s]: Wow this is funneh!
What if you send someone a flirt to see if they would flirt with you but then they're doing the same thing to you? ^^
Sent: Are you flirting with me? Received: Are you flirting with me?

2008-06-01 [Mödi]: That would be sooooooo confusing... o.o I'd be like "OMG, IS IT JUST RESENDING IT BACK TO ME OR WHAT THE BEDOODLES IS GOING ON?!" And then I'd make a face like D: and pull a total *headdesk* just for show. Y'know, to be even more melodramatic. Chicks dig that kinda thing. ;D (haha, gotta love knowing the male mind and using it to make jokes...)

2008-07-23 [Sythja]: you folks are hilarious

2008-08-10 [Bloodnymph]: i know she let's me down, but just for a short while then she changes her mind

2008-08-23 [Nick88]: What is this spot for?

2008-12-04 [grayghost]: It's for explaning the flit messages,Thank the gods that I am married! I think that once you begin flirting you are opening a pandora's box of trouble. To many very young people in elftown that might take flirting to heart and get hurt in the process! There might even be a few older Elftownes thay might use the flirt in harmful ways intensionally. Just the concerns of an old ghost,

2008-12-22 [Calays]: Well, I shall never know if anyone flirted with me, I am way too young to flirt back. But this system is a bit confusing, and I'm sure it makes people REALLY curious sometimes...<img:44166_1164145272.gif>

2009-05-11 [Aquariuscelesti a]: my friends too chicken to ask...idk why....can you delete your sent, but unopened flirts soo the reciever cant see them?

2009-10-15 [princessfai]: ~Annette~, it is possible to do so. i just tried it out and it works. u just have to click on "delete flirt". to the bottom right of the flirt that is sent. but must be sent but unopened flirts.

2009-10-15 [princessfai]: haha! a player who talked on year 2005 is weird! how could it be possible "a girl likes u but do not want u to like her."
-.- i am a female myself. there is no such thing!!! hahaha!

2010-09-08 [CodeRed]: I wonder how many flirts we've gotten and will never know

2010-12-23 [Lilya Athena]: XD

2010-12-23 [Lilya Athena]: I just now found about this

2011-01-28 [Self-Destruct]: Sounds risky. I mean, what if it's a good friend or something? There are some things that are better left a secret. Ignorance is bliss and all that shite.

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